Who Is in the Family
Jordan and his wife, Briana, 34, share five children:
- Zoey
- Dakota
- Hollyn
- Asher
- Gavin
Why He Says They Use a Leash System
Jordan says the leash helps the family safely enjoy public outings without constant fear of the kids running off. His key points:
- Kids are naturally curious and may quickly dart away in crowded places.
- The leash provides peace of mind and reduces stress during outings.
- It allows the children to walk independently while parents maintain control and safety.
- The kids reportedly “love it” because they get freedom to move rather than being confined.
Why They Stopped Using a Large Stroller
The family previously used a 6-seat stroller, but Jordan said it became impractical:
- It was too bulky to bring to many places.
- It limited the children’s ability to walk, especially in crowded areas where they wanted more independence.
The Main Criticisms Online
After the video went viral, Jordan received harsh comments such as:
- “They are humans not dogs.”
- “Can’t you just train your children well?”
- “Don’t have that many kids if you can’t handle the pressure.”
- “If you can’t handle that many children don’t get them in the first place.”
Expert Perspective: “Creative Problem Solving”
Parenting and youth development expert Dr. Deborah Gilboa offered a different view, arguing that:
- This approach can be a practical safety tool, not a sign of disrespect.
- It may help families who would otherwise feel forced to stay home.
- Public judgment often ignores the reality that parents are trying to solve a real problem, even if others can’t see it.
- A leash system can be especially useful for:
- Parents managing multiple young children at once
- A neurodiverse child who may wander or bolt
- A child who hasn’t fully developed listening and impulse control skills yet
When Should Kids No Longer Need a Leash?
Dr. Gilboa noted that for neurotypical children, the goal is to transition away from leash systems by about age 8 or 9, replacing it with other methods such as:
- Voice control and consistent listening skills
- Strong routines for staying close in public
- Alternative safety strategies for tracking children in crowds
She added that continuing a leash system into older childhood would become socially uncomfortable—“It would be awkward to be on a leash in seventh grade.”
The Bigger Question: Safety vs. Stigma
This situation highlights a broader parenting tension:
- Some people see leashes as humiliating or unnecessary.
- Others view them as a safety device that helps families function in public—especially with multiple young children—without fear or chaos.
In the end, the debate often comes down to one issue: Is the priority public appearance—or preventing a dangerous moment in a crowded place?